other from the real issue.ALWAYS. I am a Cancer girl but a very strong personality as well. With Mom's encouragement, we decided to meet in April 2014. Being in Love is wonderful. If he tells you he likes or lives you and then disappears, find someone else! Amy DeMarco from Chicago on July 30, 2012: I dated a Scorpio for about six months and your description here is pretty accurate. I told him i just wanted to hang out with him like we agreed and I felt like he was being immature. When a Scorpio Male Hurts You Purposely #1: He doesn't want to meet people close to you #2: He refuses to hang out with you #3: He talks about sex frequently #4: He rarely opens up #5: He disappears out of the blue The Bottom Line Terms: When a Scorpio Male Hurts You Purposely #1: He doesn't want to meet people close to you I do this, and I can tell you it really ticks me off when I am creating space on purpose, and someone asks me what's wrong. The first thing and one of the best things to remember though, this is how the you may see . I have a Scorpio issue for sure. I would argue the opposite. our conversation was okay and we decided to meet up after i finished my final examination. Is this a characteristic or is he playing games with me :(. I want to add he is younger than me in 6 years, he is 29. He can be so intense with his feelings; but he does have moments when he is withdrawn, and it makes me feel like he is not interested. If a Scorpio man suddenly disappears with no explanation, he could just not be interested in you. When a Scorpio feels something, their feelings Run deep and it seems really difficult for them to open up at first. He came way strong and even texted to me that he could see being married to me. These planets govern war, aggression, sexuality, and deep transformational change. I seem to have trouble with expressing my feelings in an non emotional way, I do not like to hurt peoples feelings or burden them and, can let build up to an point and then either pull away or confront, normally in an an aggressive type manner, because dont really like confrontation. I just don't have time to waste. It shows his deep love . Please help! Yes we take our time doesn't mean we don't care we just need assurance that we won't expose ourselves for being hurt in return. You may notice the following behaviors in a Scorpio man when he is testing you: He Pulls the Disappearing Act He Asks for Help or a Favor He Becomes Quieter in Conversations He Asks a Lot of Personal Questions He Shares Intimate Details About His Life He Tests Your Reaction to Conflict He Asks About Your Past Relationships He Plays Hard to Get But we can add that if that is who you want, there is no one else that will do. It's not easy but I can say that if you are not confident in yourself then it will eat you alive. I'm not guaranteeing it will change, though. turned out a week later, he texted me that he got family problem, and i said..oohh..okay..and we chat like usual. He sometimes came by my Place to Visit before he went to his Gigs. He keeps an eye on you in a caring and protective way Have you noticed your Scorpio man secretly glancing over at you or his glances drifting across the office looking for you? He just needs more time , to make a palace for future . Sometime i feel not to have a same sign mate. And our conversation end with quarrel. If not more. You can just imagine how much time that saves. we count on a lot of texts and phone calls to keep the relationship going. But when I speak to him its just short answers. So we've been checking our snapchat stories which he only posted two and so did I. I feel like my situation is probably number 5 but sometimes I get a feeling he will try to contact me one day idk. What do you guys think??? but sometimes he shuts me out of his life for at least 3 or 4 days. Long story short - i asked him whether he was seeing someone and he replied yes, but he only went out for one date only. Both times i had to hear from him via email that its over. I am freaking crazy about this guy. 10. He a 7 year old Me a 2 year old. Imagine you have a dog. he is soo sweet, and caring and loving and our sex is always great. Thank you. If you're unclear about what ghosting means, it's when someone you've been seeing disappears from your life, completely and suddenly. The first SANAI 1 base under construction. I'm pretty sure something i said or the fact that he has to repeat himself various times and doesn't understand why I laugh at everything without explanation finally reached a ticking point. Their fixed, feminine energy can come off as stubborn and reserved, but don't mistake their often quiet and secretive demeanor for passivity! If I ask him to be with me he says let's end this as I m too demanding and impatient . Have a life. But I have a son who was looking up to him. My Mom's last wish was for us to meet. Because they know their emotions are so much stronger than others', they tolerate more than most people. But when I called him, I said that this wasn't fair that he was making the decision alone and that we need to talk so he needs to come talk to me and he responded IMMEDIATELY with 'OK!'. Nasty comments like " my family comes first " " I can't be with you as I have people around me ". Hi , i am a sagittarian girl . Hi guys, I don't want to be offensive to anyone, but I don't understand why all of you don't walk, wait, run from a guy pulling this crap on you?? hi, i'm aqua girl, student 23 yr old. Source: Favim. My period is late and I might be pregnant. He messaged me a few days later and told me he had messed up and couldnt stop thinking about it so could we hang out again. Wish we will be together soon. Taurus in love with scorp on December 05, 2018: He is giving me silent treatment for over than one year. 4 Water Signs (Cancer, Scorpio, Pisces): Very In Touch With Their Emotions, It Will Be Obvious When He's Not Interested. To all scorpio man out there, could you please explain why is it really hard for you to express your feelings with the one whom you feel somewhat special to you? Well for about a year he has changed. A Pisces is always a thunderstorm of emotions and they can be quite self-destructive when they're angry. But if he is unhappy for any reason no matter how minute, he will withdraw and cheat on you--this is the stinger part. Scorpios like to be in control of the relationship. Then I get a long reply to my text were he doesn't see us going anywhere in a relationship because I can't communicate and I make funny faces and seem to take him as a joke and not seriously. They are not brave or fearless in some areas such as walking away from someone who adores them. But if the dog finally turned around and bit you then, would you think, simply because it hadn't done so before, that it came out of nowhere? Or he "ghosts" and just disappears. I decided not to talk to him anymore and he kept asking me to talk. Yes, this is a scorpio, who claims to be in a homosexual relationship yet he's this possessive and jealous of me. This is the first step in his anger cycle. He is working independently, so he is working lots, busy with his Music Needs and is living one Hour away from me, living with somebody together. My Mom was diagnosed with Cancer December 4, 2013. Understanding him 2. but what actually is he doing? I've never commented on any article ever like this but I need advice before I approach him about this. It tells me that he thinks the relationship is strong enough that he doesn't have to worry about putting on a show and being talkative every day. In other words, if you can't tell which of the first four reasons is the reason he has withdrawn, then you really don't know each other well enough for him to play mind games and expect you to sort it out. And I can do this over a protracted period of time such as few years. I felt really shitty after reading his long descriptive text. The Bug always tells me his Week Plans, work work work, shows up when promised at my Place always needs to go back home to his Dog. He had helped me with some work stuff two weeks ago, but then told me how it stressed him out. I too, fall for themwell, it's really more like tripping down the stairs :). Due to Scorpio personality traits, he is introspective and independent. Why would you wait around for this unstable twit to decide how he's going to yo yo again and how long you'll take it? I'm very hurt and miss him so much! Hi all, i m Scorpio woman n my partner is Scorpio too. I called, text, even went over. I have determined that a Scorpio's withdrawal usually has one of five causes (though there may be more I have not yet discovered): 1. So now it's been a bit over 2 weeks and I haven't heard from him, but I have been emailing him all the time and I know everyone said that I should ignore him. We have had a serious connection and am amazing attraction together. From the way you talk to your hand gestures, he will notice everything and take a deep interest in you. He was super into me, to the point where he was almost stalking me (exactly what u mentioned above) although i really didn't mind. I was almost ready to give up on him until I read this article. Well, a couple days ago, he texts me out of the blue "hey wife." No matter how sad you are, be happy and confident in whatever you do and you will soon catch his attention. But I emailed him many times apologizing to him and saying that I loved him and asking him to forgive me but I did not get even one word back. So, I got pissed and send him many messages that were saying how much he hurt me by doing that but I was definitely a bit hysterical lol because on top of being a Cancer, I was starting to pms. I have introduced him to a lot of couples with problems across the world and they have had good news Just thought I should share my experience because I strongly believe someone out there needs it You can email him through his email..dr_mack@ yahoo. I think Scorpios are very complex people. She may stare across the room or look away when your eyes meet on your first date. I have been talking to a Scorpio man online for 4 years. If you aren't sure about him, don't put up with his games. Or a few months. How could he just not think of me at all for 3 weeks, and then randomly text me like nothing was wrong?! The Scorpio man is one of the most emotional signs. nways, before our first meeting, i asked him to confirm our meeting but he didn't replied. A scorpio man is something else. hopefully this is helpful :) I'm thinking about writing one on the ego of scorpio males ;) ( and females!). then i try to contact him asking whether he only wants me for sexting ? I really dont know who the ideal sign for a Scorpio is, Well Said.a typical scorpio behavior. But whenever were together, I feel he loves me somehow. Trust issue or what i dont know. It will only tell this Scorpio man or woman that you are too close, to begin with. He finally said "LEAVE ME ALONE, I DID THIS EASY AND CLEAN" Stop calling stop texting. 1. Their hard outer shell seems tough and a bit dark, but it's all to protect the bleeding heart within. The touchy-feely Scorpio man will make attempts to hold you and hug you if he wants to get close to you. He doesn't care about what you think. I am at a vulnerable stage in my life right now. But things are slowy getting boring for me. Take The Quiz: Is He Losing Interest? his job is very demanding and unable to come to see me so I am the one that goes and visits him. Sometimes i fought with him , coz i thought he does not love me !!!!! Scorpios along with being secretive, mysterious, sensuous and what not are very emotional. After all we have been together for 2 and I a half but he is not receptive to my feelings. They value honesty and enjoy being . He wrote back and we exchanged a few messages after that, but I am just so confused as to what is going on in that head of his. he disappeared but after some time he texted me saying 'I'm sorting my thoughts out because this feels brutal and chaotic' which sounded so childish to me. KrisNick09 (author) from Kentucky on July 30, 2012: amymarie 5 - Thanks! I rather move on and look for someone else right away, but he's totally worth it. I understand that pisces men need their space but if you think he's cheating on you, he probably is. He may not have found anything special in you that would make him stay. Help he is turturing me with mind and body. How do I navigate this relationship, because I do care deeply for him. I really liked this hub. This is so true! Do I give him space and let him sort it out? Sorry to be so gruesome but if you cannot handle the heat stay out of the kitchen. My boyfriend is a scorpio and I'm libra. I hope I helped!! I know the Bug had a Gig near my Place so i went to Hogans to surprise him. My scorpio man sais he adores me etc I know he likes me very much a dis genuine but then he desapears for a few days then he comes back. What does he want from me How would I knw he is lying to me(scorpio) he said he is not over his ex and need time to deal with his feelings. Like all water signs, Scorpio men love hard and forever, and feel things intensely. So I have made it a point to not bring that into "us" I also invited him to hangout with my friends for Thanksgiving and with family for Christmas. All the time I have given them a real long rope and they have sadly tied it around their neck of their own accord. But now I haven't heard from him for a week and a half and have no idea why. Scorpio sun signs are born from October 23November 21, right between Libra and Sagittarius. I am a venus in scorpio and I can vouch for this. Love him anyway. Like the fall of a paper airplane or (more appropriately, since, ya know- Scorpio) an artillery shell. Scorpio Detests Lying If you lie to your Scorpio lover, he will know it. So, they can go on for a good while after things have cooled off quite a bit. Sometimes a hug and affection is of more value than sexual relations. I was in a Bad Relationship which has been pretty done soon or later and i thought it would be good to get out of the House and so see the Bugs Band. Some people may take that as being taken for granted, but I guess all I can say is, if that bothers you, talk about it. We were getting on great and we were talking about getting married and out of nowhere he went cold turkey on me. In fact he ended the wonderful relationship we had because he says he needs to think of whether or not he wants kids and family or not. 5 He enjoys private, romantic dates. He's amazing, caring, funny.. Just wonderful but when he is upset, he goes off the grid. I think the act of distancing himself is more painful than you realize and it probably takes extreme will to stay away. This month holds celestial . There is also a stereotype that Geminis are two face and airy, which is usually exaggerated negatively by others. we do talk about sex, but the difference is, he want to know me deeper. Of course the purpose of being happy as well as having fun is to let him notice. As a Scorpio woman, I believe theres at least one more reason which is missing in that list: Scorpio Man wants to feel absolutely in control and indispensable. I will say to the women having troubles however, that if he's disapearing for a WK or more regularly, it really has nothing to do with his sign and waay more to do with you're just not a major priority yet. You are theirs alone and nobody else's therefore, you can only share your personal feelings or opinions with him. He said "I am going to cause you stress, you will cause me stress" if we cant do that then we cant do this. He is not interested in a serious relationship and will only stay with you as long as it benefits him. So I have dated a scorpio several years ago, we reconnected. They need lots of love , attention & affection . He may just be enjoying his alone time, pondering the meaning of life, or pouring himself into his passion projects. In my opinion, we Scorpios take offhanded comments a bit too personally. Also, because he clams up, he'll never feel enough guilt to tell you that he's cheating on you. He basically begged for a second chance. I guess there are some things that remain true through the years. But actually, they are great observers. I know they behave negative but see them positive ! He snoring very loud, don't tell him this omg, he sticks his Head up his Tube to not be heard..lol and he refuses to stay over Night cause of this. Yes, a scorpio man is a one task at a time individual, so say that they have alot of things to accomplish in such a short period of time or they feel overwhelmed they tend to withdrawal a bit and it really takes a women whom is strong and can handle finding things to do on your own. We have both been under work stress. I am a pisces. They are very secretive about their feelings but not for bad reasons. I'm dating a Scorpio and I must say I've never seen men without feelings like Scorpio men. Scorpios have multiple stages of evolution (Scorpion, snake, wolf and Phoenix), and our mindset and how we carry ourselves is significantly different in each stage. Everysince i felt hurt and texted him about how i felt and its been 4 days now he has not replied. Hi, I'm a Leo who was dating a Scorpio for 3 and half months. THE MAKEUP THOUSAND-MAN CUT!A GREAT CRISIS!LINK YOUR HEART AND TURN EVERYTHING . Is this how Scorpio men behave? What do I do?? Mine came back after 5 years. Karthik Kashyap from India on July 17, 2012: KrisNick09: I think I may be in situation 3. Although Scorpio men are quick to pull the plug, he will start to pull away emotionally before this time. I guess he never was that interested after all. DONT CHASE HIM. I am the kind of Libra female who craves attention and if I don't hear from my Scorpio for ONE day - I begin to freak out and go back and forth - he loves me, he loves me not. We had a great connection, long amazing talks, which he would usually initiate, so we both agreed to take things slowly. Secondly, even I am dating a scorpio who sometimes withdraws but who cares , I am going to take it until it reaches my threshold and then i will break it off with him, thirdly , as a leo i am prone to displays of pride and arrogance- the fact that I can acknowledge it and try to be a better person in relationships and not let my Leonine shortcomings define me, so if you are dating a Scorpio who can not control husband baser instincts then please ask him you fuck off , life is too short to run behind weirdos, Fourth of all , I am pretty sure that each of you frustrated girls out here are interesting, beautiful and amazing human beings, remember that when you feel like you are being used. Scorp men take tend to take it to heart when you go to other people especially guy friends for advice. They want you to pour out your heart and you literally have to pry things out of them. Posted on February 2, the video has amassed 80,000 views. If he has decided to distance himself in preparation to leave you then he is making it easier for you. Avoiding eye contact. But I am telling you.. When he's sad, he often feels deeply and intensely. This page really helped, Kris. But it was important for me to tell him that I regret what I said. Awesome! P.S. Scorpio men are born between October 23 and November 21. I haven't acted clingy at all, and I don't plan on doing so at any point. My point is, you may think it came out of nowhere, but he has been keeping track, and something tipped the scales. His eyes have been locking in on you. I really wish u all well ladies and hope I helped a tad. They are a little different . At first, I was like omg what did I do wrong and then scorp man let it be known that everything is fine. He's Angry If a Scorpio man acts like he doesn't care, he could be angry. These guys have the most intense eyes in the zodiac. it don't take just a few seconds to text someone and say good morning and how is your day. I hope this isn't the case for anyone, because it says volumes about his lack of compassion for you if he isn't willing to give you closure. This year, we finally met in person. Be honest cause hes very intuituve and can read you really well. I am so glad to hear that everyone is having the same concerns. He is a Scorpio, sweet, caring, thoughtful, listening well, good Manners, a real Love Bug. He'll especially spend time on things he's passionate about such as art, music, or even his career. First time he gave me the silent treatment I was a bit agitated with him because he kept calling me difficult and I got pissed and told him something mean like 'you better go back online and find an easy-going girl who had an easy life'. Instead of. There will be times when he's somewhere in between extremes, but it happens less frequently than with other signs. I haven't called to see what's happening etc I'm just going to go do my own thing and let him be. So I recently met a scorpio and we instantly had a spiritual, physical and emotional connection. I always give him space even when I don't need vis versa. Their element is water, meaning they navigate the world through their emotions. Scorpio men are not easy. I can't have him and no one else will ever interest me again. Our Love is real we know it from the Start. We had plans to hang out but on the day of he bailed on me and hurt my feelings in doing so. Im totally confused coz he's giving me mixed signals. It's a shady, passive aggressive way of breaking up with. Then you can slowly start to open up and show your more sensitive side. A Scorpio man typically keeps himself inundated with lots of things to do. I guess it was probly #1 thow since his mom is in the hospital. he's working, he is charming but he talk only about sex. From my experience (both as a Scorpio and as someone who has dated several Scorpio men), I'm going to explain their peculiar behavior as best as I can. Why?? The dog loves you, understands that you don't know any better, and tolerates your curious tugging. I am a sadge sun otherwise and not in the least clingy or demanding. Not responding to my texts . We stayed in Contact for the next 3 Years. He waited till Wednesday and texted 'Hey' I didn't text back I knew something was wrong and I was upset aswell. i know i;m not his priority. I reciprocate but I don't take things to heart. Be strong and dont let him control you. He tells me im the one but when he starts getting tired he gives me confidence and reassurence with words that don't feel like a lie. I really think it's the arrogance and a Scorpio. It is so tough to leave him alone when he is in a funk but I hve 2 give him space or he will disappear. He wanted to see me then changed his mind.wth. We were totally fine for a month, then he was at his friend's place and he was supposed to come to stay with me before going home but he got sick and he only texted me when he was already on the way home without even telling me he's thinking of not coming. I was going to ask him if I did something wrong, but I held back in order to not look desperate. I'm not going to blow his phone up and beg for him to talk to me if that's what he thinks. As I write this, I see how silly, stupid and ridiculous and wacky I must seem to anyone who reads this. If he is distant keep it moving and show him that you wont lose any sleep. If your Scorpio man is distant after intimacy, he may have felt it wasn't what he expected or wanted. his actions do not depend on just the fact that he is a Scorpio). I feel he did this because he was hurt because I shared my problems with others instead of going to him, I know he cares for me? Luv this hub. I honestly thought he was ghosting me. then his txts are so short without endearment. A Scorpio enjoys cinematic and classically romantic dates. I love his jealous & possessiveness alot . He's angry. It's quite an experience to see the Scorpio man operate under adversity's black clouds. Should I be calling him or a. I pressuring him I really don't want to scare him or make him feel like I am trying to possess him. :). This is both a blessing and a curse. He will not talk about it and shuts right down. The Scorpio Man likes having space. In astrology, there are several complex methods of determining compatibility beyond sun signs. Give her some space for her to get past the upset. few days later, he message me telling his phone broke, and his chat is jammed. Give each other space. And wish I could roll more mid field and not the spikes up and down constantly is really tiring. The Bug told me he is playing Music at some Bar so he invited me to come visit. These men are secretive, alluring, mysterious, stubborn, and very intelligent. I told him many times I wasn't a good communicator but he said that's okay. They infer by the expressions of your face what one would call mind readings. They would tell me they'd see me and try to say hi but I wouldn't notice them. Yes this one drives me Nuts, but i always know he is coming back around. Please someone tell me what to do about my Scorpio guy best friend ! because both times I had said something that was questioning if I'll leave him he would want to end it first. A few times over the following three weeks, I came close to contacting him. But you need to remember that he needs to show the same concern for you. I don't know if he still likes me. Lying, gaslighting, disappearing acts/avoiding for days on end, and emotionally irresponsible- denying fault or acting unaware of their actions- refusing to talk things out, is just not worth it.